Fall In Love To Be Successful In Life

Fall In Love To Be Successful In Life
Love is all about being selfish. A lot of disinterested passions are evoked within one when one is in love. It occupies the centre of one’s thoughts for a long time, till another object that evokes a similar or a greater passion takes its place. This is the only negative trait associated with this beautiful emotion, but what is selfish about dedicating your whole life to someone?

Philosophers and thinkers have often rejected a hypothesis that relates the four-lettered emotion with being mean in any manner. It is all about giving all you have to someone and not expecting anything in return. There can never be anything more positive than this in the entire world. When you love someone, you are prepared to give all you have to the other person without expecting an equal or any barter. If you expect something in return, you are not a part of the caravan of love. Love is only about giving, and not about accepting or expecting anything in return.

Love is an emotion that brings out the best in you. It is only your love for someone that propels you to put your best foot forward in all situations of life. This logically means all lovers are bound to succeed in life: they are the ones who should get the most medals and trophies. This is true, but not in all situations. There is always a fear of the unknown where one is not sure about the path that is being trodden on. This does happen when one puts one’s best foot forward: one finds oneself in situations no one has ever been in. Love is the best companion.

Love is certainly a big help here. It certainly helps in overcoming the dissonance that is generated within one by the sheer novelty of situations. It serves not only as a good companion for those looking for success in life by helping them overcome the dissonance generated, but also as a good catalyst in the reaction that applies a balm over those who can’t succeed in life. Love is a good antidote for failure. Those who fail to get what they aim for are certainly not going to get an iota of satisfaction they aimed for, but some amount of love is certainly going to help them overcome the trauma that follows.

 The bandwagon of love is known to remedy a lot of cuts and wounds that everyday life inflicts on us. Successful people also need this balm too, you can be very sure. They need it all the more than those who don’t succeed, they need it to tone down the intensity of the potion of love. Success can be a bitter gourd at times even while it appears to be very sweet to our external taste-buds. All said and done, it can never be dealt with in an offhanded manner.

Anyway, success forms an inherent part of our lives. No one can do without it. Well, success in life often happens to because people fear of fading into a dull colourless and meaningless nothingness. This is what propels many people into making consistent and constant efforts for success, and many such people are propelled towards success aboard the caravan of love. They find themselves making efforts to be successful because their altered state of being is going to be relevant for their adventures with love. Those who lack this beautiful element in their lives often remain where they are for a long time. They can only dream of being successful, while those in love are already successful.

In the normal course of events, love is only one-sided. It is wrong when one expects love to be like a double-edged sword where both the edges are as sharp as they can ever be. In almost all cases, it is only one of the edges that is sharp and smart enough to create wedges through all elements. Though the sword being double-edged is known to be quite amenable to success, yet the phenomenon is not always an essential ingredient of success. The expertise with which a single blade of the sword of love pierces through life is known to be next only to a miracle.

But success is a phenomenon that evades us till it is comfortable to be with us in all its avatars. It chooses its own time to be with us, and till that time, we have to be in a state where one can only wait and watch. It is quite disgusting, but one is left with no choice or options but to wait and it is often quite a long wait. Quite often, the waiting-time extends till infinity.

The platform of success takes quite a long time before it appears on the itinerary in any form. There are always hints and signs of it being on the way, but one can never be sure of it being there. On several occasions, we happen to pass by it on several different occasions without recognizing it. Success keeps changing its form and shapes, it is typically different for all of us. There can never be said to be a single formula of success that suits everyone because everyone of us has different levels of satisfaction. Different people are satisfied by different entities in life, and even for these different people, the standards keep changing over time and space. Love certainly goes  a long way in levelling these and many other differences.

One of the most beautiful  traits of success is its spontaneity. It can as well be waiting for us at the next platform, but at the same time, it can be several junctions off. The very realization is quite disgusting and irritating. This is what makes us always go ahead in life, and this is what keeps life kicking in all of us.

Love has been a part of our paraphernalia ever since, and it is going to be the propeller towards success till we live.